The Borrowed Life
You did everything right. You were dependable. You made everyone proud. So why does it feel like your life isn’t quite your own?
I'm Chloe. I specialize in death anxiety: the creeping fear that your life is passing you by unlived. I offer emotion-focused, spiritually-rooted therapy for people who have spent so long being who they were supposed to be, they've lost touch with who they actually are.
This Is For You If
You've always been the responsible one, and somewhere along the way, you disappeared into that role.
You understand yourself clearly. Feeling yourself is another story.
You're going through a rupture, a breakup, a faith crisis, a falling out, a move, and the life you built suddenly doesn't feel like yours.
You carry grief or longing you've never been able to name, let alone feel.
You need other people's approval, energy, or company just to feel okay, and the relief never lasts.
You keep asking: Is this really it?
Why Death Anxiety, And Why Now
This feeling has a name. You've just been taught to call it something else… ingratitude, restlessness, not trying hard enough. But I see it as your life trying to reach you.
Death anxiety is the fear of never having truly lived; of reaching the end and realizing you spent it performing, pleasing, and shrinking. It surfaces in the quiet moments. After the breakup. When the house empties. When the faith that held everything together starts to crack.
You were handed a map that was never really yours. I help you put it down and find your way back to the life underneath.
Work With Me
There's no right way to arrive here. You might be in the middle of falling apart, or just quietly wondering if this is all there is. Either is welcome. You're allowed to want more than a life that merely functions. You're allowed to take up space inside your own story, to feel it, to actually be in it.