You feel like you’re always giving: physically, emotionally, energetically.

But somehow, it never feels like enough. It’s lonely. It’s tiring.

The Invisible Burden

You’ve always felt deeply connected to the people in your life. So connected that their moods often become your moods, their pain becomes your responsibility, and their needs feel louder than your own. You try to be there for everyone, but deep down, you wonder:

Who’s really there for me?

You may not have the words for it, but what you’re experiencing is a kind of emotional over-responsibility. You feel at the mercy of other people’s reactions, approval, and attention. You walk on eggshells, trying not to upset anyone. You second-guess yourself constantly.

You want peace, but you always feel on high alert, trying to prevent the next explosion, withdrawal, or rejection.
You long to to feel free, lighter, calmer.

It Was Never Your Job To Hold It All

Somewhere along the way you learned to anticipate others’ emotions so well, it became second nature to put yourself last. To say yes when you want to say no.

And now, this constant emotional shape-shifting has become exhausting.

This work is about returning to who you’ve always been

It’s about gently unfolding the parts of you that have been carrying more than they were meant to hold. It’s also about creating a space where you feel acknowledged and valued. Where you can learn to trust yourself again and feel safe enough to express what you need.

It’s about shifting from surviving on other people’s terms to living from your own, allowing old pain to soften and new ways of being to emerge.

Philosophy & Approach

Your body holds the feelings your mind tried to forget.
Healing doesn’t come from thinking our way out of pain. It begins when we feel safe enough to notice what’s been hiding inside. When your nervous system learns to trust safety again, your heart remembers how to rest. That's when the quiet wisdom inside you can finally guide you back home to yourself.

I work with the body, the heart, and the deeper meaning behind your pain.
My approach is emotion-focused, holistic, and trauma-informed. I use AEDP to help you process deep emotions and shift painful patterns, brainspotting to release stored emotional pain, and spiritual perspectives to help you discover the deeper meaning that may be waiting beyond the old patterns you’ve lived through. Over time, this work can help you feel calmer, trust yourself more, and feel more connected to yourself and your relationships.